Taking Care of Our Elderly

Davis 1 E. Diana Davis ENGL 2010 Professor Asplund 21st phratry 2012 The Responsibility of Taking Care of Our Elders My grandmother k right offs a lot rise-nigh how it feels to be left in a digest alone, waiting for somebody to assist her to just choke bulge of bed. This Saturday morning I unflinching to go visit her while my grandfather was at dialysis. She was surprised to give away my voice as she turned her head over my way and smiled. I could hear the sound of relief in her voice just penetrating her granddaughter was here to see about her.My grandmother has been blind since March 2012 she is a diabetic that has had an eye surgery to help repair a spaced retina that is still healing. In the meanwhile shes been dealing with paralysis on her right side from a stroke she suffered over twenty old age ago, and its really taken a toll on her health. As I sat down beside her with a pen and paper I told her I foreshadow fored to get her point of view on how she feels about being an cured person in this stern economy. I demand to know if they were able to cover all their of necessity on a fixed income. Did she really feel like her and my grandfathers needs were really being met?As she began to tell me about her fears Davis 2 And concerns my subject matter sunk and I thought to myself, have we really failed to live up to the obligations of fetching do by of our elders. As she spoke in her little angelic tone, she make me aware of how hard it is to do simple things like taking a shower, cooking and even going to the restroom is a hard task to do these days. She said I feel like everyone is too busy to lend a hand, and me and your grandfather dont want to be a burden on you all. I thought to myself as her granddaughter, was I even doing enough?Was the province of taking care of our elderly been overlooked, or was it being passed down to the few faithful people who were acquire burnt out on the responsibility? My grandparents as parents bared th e moralistic, legal, and good responsibilities to care for their children. However, now that my grandparents have contributeed an age where they can no long-lasting look after themselves, the duties of their adult children to support them is less clear. It is therefore but fair to say now that their children are grown up and now their parents have become elderly, they should take up the responsibility to provide a decent life for their parents.While it is not a legal obligation, it is a moral obligation and its time to pay forward what is owed to our parents/grandparents. Its our responsibility to help any family member in need. Our family has raised us and helped to run low in this uncertain economy, so why shouldnt we help out when our parents and grandparents reach an age where they need our assistance? Davis 3 Only one out of in five people takes the needed steps to prepare lawfully and financially for taking care of an incapacitated parent. Consider this contrast amongs t expectations and reality Only 13 percent of some 4,000 U.S. workers surveyed for the 2011 (Aflac Work Forces Report) deal that the need for long-term care would affect their families. The percentage of adult children providing private care and/or financial assistance to a parent has much than tripled over the past 15 years, the research group found. Of course, in todays punk economy, it also is common for elderly adults to be supporting their adult children. provided in some ways, thats easier to accept Parents often plan to leave some(prenominal) wealth they have to their children anyway.The flow of wealth from older to jr. contemporaries feels natural to many a(prenominal). But with Americans living so much longer now, the younger generation has to do more thinking about how they might care for parents who have played out their savings. After spending the whole day public lecture with my grandparents about their concerns I felt compelled to lend a hand. I made lunch for them and started to clean the kitchen. By the end of the day the whole house was spotless, and before I left I help my grandfather get my grandmother ready for bed.I have to say I was really exhausted when I finished, but the feeling I felt when I saying them smiling and relaxing unneurotic was worth a million bucks. As soon as I got home that night, I was determined that I had to help with this situation right away. The first thing to do was to call a family meeting. It was time for everyone to pull Davis 4 unitedly and take up their responsibility to do their part. First thing we needed to do is localize together a schedule and set it in stone. We all concord that we would be assigned a day to go and check on our grandparents/parents.This action plan would include cooking, cleaning and donating at least a hundred dollars a month to help with their financial needs. So furthest this is working out great, and all it took was a concerned person to be a good listener and someone to pull a family together to put a plan in action. By working together as a family it helped to mend broken relationships and it helped us to accomplished many beautiful things. Im happy to say my grandparents are well taken care now, and years have been added to their life span. Davis 5 whole kit and boodle Cited Http//www. aflac. com/ Aflac_WorkForces_Report 2011